May 07 - What If Im Successful And Im Still Unhappy

Stress Less E-Letter

May 2007

Announcements

	Stewart Graduates Level 2 EFT I'm delighted to announce my recent graduation as Level 2 EFT Practitioner. What this means for you is faster, better results, with greater depth, and less time in the clinic. I was privileged to train with.... Read full story
Stewart Robertson, Stress Specialist	I Have Changed My Pricing As most of you know, my pricing policy has until now been fixed price treatment. I have now reluctantly changed this to a per-session cost. Full details

	New EFT Intro Video The best introduction to EFT yet, by founder Gary Craig. This simple 7 minute YouTube short covers the basics, research, and showcases EFT success with dozens of conditions, all far better than I ever could. Includes crystal clear footage of the effects of EFT on red blood cells, side-by-side for comparison. You do not want to miss this. Click the link at the top right of my home page.

	Domain Name For Sale On reviewing my portfolio, I have decided to sell www.traininginnlp.com. Certain among you will know the value of this. Develop it, park it and take the revenue, or simply redirect it to your existing site. I am accepting offers ONLY via Sedo. Here is the link: Sedo.com

Feature Article

Forgive me for being dramatic, but conditional happiness is a social disease, in my opinion. "I can't be happy until...." is a pattern of thinking which prevents us from connecting to our authentic selves, and those things in life which bring spiritual peace.

What If I _____ And I’m Still Unhappy?

(get the job, lose the weight, am successful in business, get the right relationship, etc).

By Stewart Robertson

Thinking about your life, in what areas have you set up your happiness to depend on external circumstances, or worse, things/objects/possessions? (Be honest)

This is external conditional happiness. (“I won’t feel good until he/she/they/it….” Or “I won’t be able to be happy until…..happens.”) These are rule beliefs which can only be lose/lose for you. Isn’t it possible that you could get that thing you seek, that you assume to be missing, and still not feel good? And, equally, isn’t it possible that the thing you seek is already here in some form, just not in the place/timeliness/amount etc you want it, i.e. according to the rules you have set up?

The ONLY way to feel good, is to feel good ANYWAY, regardless of circumstances around you. And when you begin to feel good regardless of what life presents you with, you will begin to attract the things you want automatically and very naturally, taking the fast lane to emotional riches. And then, - heaven forbid – other pleasant coincidences in life begin happening, the right people show up, your relationships improve, - gasp - you get a promotion or raise….

Choosing to feel good now, regardless of the current situation is crucial because this is the only means by which you will change what you are attracting into your life, on a long term basis. The conscious choice to be an appreciator when life presents you with something you don’t want is the FASTEST way to change your emotional point of attraction and what you are attracting into your life.

So, what if I _____ and I’m still unhappy? Choose to be happy within yourself anyway, because as long as you make external success or events the condition of your happiness, you will spend life chasing rainbows rather than CHOOSING happiness anyway. In Wayne Dyer’s words, “happiness is something you decide on ahead of time”. In each individual moment in time you have the power to take a positive perspective, but will you choose to?

Gratitude,

Stewart

Case History

Newcomer Collapses Own Fear Of Public Speaking (And More) Under Time Pressure - It always gives me great big warmies to look on as another discovers the power of EFT through their own experience, and realises the healing possibilities we have with this stuff. In this case newcomer Caroline collapses her own fear of public speaking in short order, with the help of some friends in Helen Walker's EPNS forum. There is much evidence here of the EFT hallmarks we have come to love - language, aspects, generalisation effect, and the realisation of a major core issue. I offer an edited transcript, and add my own augmenting comments. This case should prove inspiring for both newcomers and seasoned EFTers alike. Much to admire here. Read full story

Worthy Mentions

• New Article - Medical Doctor Confirms Physical Symptoms Caused By Emotional Issues. This substantial, first-class article by surgical specialist Dr Eric Robins is a wonderful mirror of my own thoughts on therapy, and the real causes of our physical symptoms. Making it a wonderful way for us to get acquainted, before we've even met. A must-read for those considering clinic treatment with me. Full article

• Does It Matter If I'm Sceptical? - Read full answer and more FAQs here.

• Witness EFT in Action - Be a fly on the wall as Gary Craig deals with trauma, addictions, fears and phobias in these short videos. Your choice of 4. See for yourself.

• More Case Histories

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